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  • A big lil update

    I’ve been making changes this year and it sucks, but it’s necessary.

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  • spain

    In late October 2023 I traveled to Malaga Spain for my annual Division Meetup at work. It was the last thing I’d had planned when Jordan passed, and the last thing he knew for sure I was doing. When I booked my tickets I decided to return a week after the end of the meetup,

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  • krudler

    A few days after Jordan passed, I adopted a new dog. I needed new energy in the house, and a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Pinto and Aurora are both getting older, and neither of them is particularly imposing as a home defense deterrent (other than the barking).

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  • books on grief

    I’ve been tearing through books on mourning, grief, death, and surrounding topics. Since I’ve been reading so many (and quickly), I thought it might be helpful to share a list of them and a brief review to help guide others to materials they may find helpful during times of loss.

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